I have a question?
So,ladies and maybe some of you menz....I have a question to ask you and one you might want to ponder on since not to much is going on in my life!Before I ask I'll say that the kids are funnier then evahhh and life is HOT and busy! Anywhoz,here it is....How do implants(breast of course)rate with you? Do you believe in them or should we be happy with what we have? Let me know,lets get some good comments going! Love you all and ......see yaaaaaaa!
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What ever makes you happy, you should do! (Within reason of course!)
I think that there is nothing wrong with them as long as you don't go Pamela Anderson or Jenna Jameson.
I guess I have been lucky in that department, but wouldn't be against some volume and lift for myself! ;)
Two years from now, I will have them. Without question. More for my own sake and self esteem than for Jake, 'cause he doesn't really care. I want to wear a bathing suit, and not have to worry if it has padding or not. And even having to add more padding, just to make me look more presentable. Or be able to life my arms and not have my bra come up to my neck. I know a lot of you know what I am talking about!!!
I say...who cares what other my think or say. If it makes you feel good and you can afford it...DO IT!!
i say if you want them, get them. they rate a 10 in my book. :) i already have a fund set up for mine, along with my tummy tuck of course.
I say go for it! I have already starting my "boob fund" too. I still like my body, but a little extra padding would better compliment the junk in my trunk!
I totally agree! I was with a bunch of girls for girls night on Friday and one of them said that"what's the difference between a tatoo and implants,you're doing something permanent to your body"!
Spoken from a true big breasted woman! It was so hard to keep from screaming!She is the nicest girl too.Everyone has their own opinion,right? So, do we think spiritually about it? Anywho I have my fund started too. I cant' wait to get 'em. I am hoping to before next summer....we'll see! Here's another thought...do you wait until after kids?
i don't know really. of course im another big breasted woman, so i know I don't have the same perspective. someone once told me our bodies will be perfected after we die right? So what ever we do to them here will be gone. I wish I was at a level where I could accept my body 100%, but it is hard. I want the tummy tuck before anything, but I don't know if I'd really do it. I think about my girls all the time and want them to just love their bodies and not base themselves on their appearance, so I guess deep down I don't think altering ourselves is what Heavenly Father would have us do, but PLEASE PLEASE don't think I am judging. Like I said, I have thought A LOT lately about this stuff.
I would definetly wait till after kids, breast implants make me nervous. Im sure they're pretty safe now though.
Hi Chanel! I tried getting onto your blog site and couldn't I would love to see it! Thanks for the comments! Your so sweet.
I just came across your blog and couldn't help but comment. I am so very sad at the comments that have been written. You ladies are Women of the Church. I can't believe that breasts implants and all sorts of plastic surgery have become so norm among us that we are deceived to believe it is ok. It is definately a decision that is made on a personal basis, but can I ask... what are we teaching our young women? our nieces? OUR daughters?!?!? Don't get me wrong I am not even a "nearly A" cup especially after nursing my two babies so far. But I have earned my body, from horrible stretch marks to saggy boobs. Why can't we just be happy with what we have? What would our pioneer ancestors think about our vanity? I don't want to sound like an old prune, because I am even younger than all of you but I just keep thinking about the scripture in mormon chapter 6:17, I believe the prophet Mormon is speaking and he says O ye fair ones, how could you be departed from the ways of the world. We are the fair ones. I hope we don't depart from the ways of the lord. Sorry to go on forever. I just feel strongly about this topic, because I have a daughter myself, and I worry all the time about the world she is being brought up in and I hope she will have good examples to lead her. Thanks for letting me post my thoughts! I to don't want you to think I judge you! I have too many of my own problems!
Do I need to comment on this? I think not!
Do it! I too would and will wait until after babies though.
I don't think getting a boob job makes a person vain at all. Women are doing things to themselves all the time to make their appearance nicer such as working out, cutting or coloring our hair, etc. Naturally, I am not a little girl so I have to go to the gym multiple times a week to stay in good shape. Is that being vain wanting to improve my appearance and spending so much time, money and energy doing so? Of course a boob job is more extreme than any of those tactics, but they all are for the same goal to make us look better. I agree that much thought and consideration needs to go into that decision and ultimatley it is a personal decision, but I don't think it should affect your spirituality at all. I think you need to be doing it for healthy reasons and not just because you have a bad image about your body. I think if you are doing it because you don't like yourself you will always want to do something more and that can become a problem. Overall be happy with yourself but if your boobs are a little on the small side or sagging after nursing then by all means get the boob job! Plus, getting something like this does not have to be announced to your family or ward. Enjoy them privately if you are worried about setting a bad example.
First of all I want to know what "Eve" looks like? Because I know she has a womens body and not the one of a 12 yr old boy! I also want to say that I have "earned" my body too! I have a scar that goes from my belly button down to my "you know what", that my friend is earned! I would also like to comment on women who aren't able to have children they way God planned. The ones who have to go through hec trying to get pregnant and end up getting pregnant in a dish (medically). What about those women? Are they doing harm because they are getting pregnant "unaturally"? I think NOT!Do you REALLY think Heavenly Father is going to judge or look at them differnt because they had to change their bodies to get pregnant? I go to the gym...is that changing me? I have a daughter and i am not scared to tell her that I got one. When she sees the before picture she'll be so glad I did! This is not something we can others about and we should be happy that they feel better about themselves. I am just happy there are things like this to help women out especially the women who have had breast cancer and have their breast removed,don't you think it's AWESOME that they have a choice to have the "woman" body part given back to them? I do! I couls d go on forever but I shouldn't have to!
Kissy,we know you have something smart and powerful to say!
I am so excited to tell you that I am gettin my new boobs on Aug 6th!!!!!!!!!! I am doing it for me. After three kids, well mine look like a mismatched pair of socks. Lance did in no way suggest this, he totally loves my body the way it is. But I have a problem with them and I just dont feel at all sexy which carries into other areas. I want to be confident and I am soooooo excited about my surgery. This is something that I have wanted for atleast three years. Its not something done on a whim. But to be honest I do wonder what things will be said at church. Lets face it . Yes we are supposed to be nonjudgemental, but in my ward alot of the women are like high school. And those of you that know me, know that I had enough of that crap to last a life time.Having the calling that I do, I really try hard not to judge others or to participate in any of the gossip or badmouthing of others. I really try to have some kind of friendship with everyone. I just hope that I am not judged by others for my decision. I say do what makes you feel happy with your self. And YEAH for boobs!!!!
"Woman of the church" or not, it is a personal decision and as long as it is what you want than don't worry about the critics.
I am sure that you are a wonderful mom and that your children will not judge you for adding to your self confidence. It is not like you are doing it to be a porn star!!!!
Life is short, you can't sweat the small stuff.
Here here on every comment after "Cassie"!!! I am in the process of trying not to be so "sassy", BUT I agree that it is a womens choice on what they do to their body. Hey, I just figure that when the millennium comes, this will be the set I have!!! Hahaha! I keed! I did it for me and NOT my hubby. He just enjoys the benefits! I am more confident with myself, my children will not know (unless I choose to tell them), I look better in clothes (which are modest), and I am more confident with my hubby. Hip hip for the purkies! K, that was kinda gross. Sorry.
You go Stac! You are getting boobs on MY anniversary....what the crap is that? Terry doesn't care either and that helps but still I know deep,deep down he gets a little excited about it! I am way excited for you girl, my time is a comin!
That's right Nichole life is too short to worry about what others think!
Hahahahahaha Kissy!
HI! Im sorry you can't get on my blog- I need your email address so I can put you in as a reader. email me at ryanchanel@msn.com
thanks!
you really struck a nerve here huh?
That's for sure! But hey,blogin was getting a little too boring :)
I really appreciate eveyone's comments....REALLY! Keep 'em comin!
Ditto to everything Kj said!!
Look on the bright side...when everyone is ready to get their boobs done, there will be a huge reference list of doctors!:)
Somebody has to keep the Plastic Surgeons in their mansions!
Yep to ALL of that! Hopefully when I am ready it won't cost an arm and a leg to get 'em!
When the time comes, shop around!!!! I went to four different surgeons before deciding. They all suggested different things. I went with what I likes the best!!! Every one is different, do research!!!!
I know I'm coming in at the end of this discussion but I really want them too after I'm done with kids. I know what you mean Melissa!
I was wondering where the church stood on this since tattoo's are a no-no. My father-in-law said he wouldn't be surprised if the church comes out with a statement on plastic surgery soon even though he said he sees nothing wrong with "enhancements". I better get it done soon in case we are counseled against it. How long after you're done nursing do you have to wait?
I don't think the church has said anything directly about plastic surgery, but they have made comments about being happy with what you were given and not giving women the idea that you have to change your body to be happy......but I do know a bishop's wife, bishop's daughter, and a stake president's wife that have had them done so I take that as meaning its ok to me.
Elder Holland talked about this very subject to the young women of the church (and I include myself as a young woman ;)). Really good read! AND I love that he quotes Halle Berry!
I try to look at it like this...If I have to rationalize something too much that is a pretty good sign that it probably isn't something I should do. That being said, every situation is different. I still rationalize many things so this post actually is good for me to re-evaluate some of my habits! It's a pretty loaded issue. I'm sure you will do what you feel is best and what is most important to you. NO judgements here.
Good luck in your decision making!
Thanks Liza! I remember that talk too! It was really good. The hardest part is worrying about what others will think. I won't be getting them anytime soon but the sooner the better for me. It is such a personal choice but I do like to hear from others too. I know people joke about how small they are but I PROMISE to anyone who reads this I am smaller then you will ever know. For examlpe, last year we were all getting ready for my sis-in-law's wedding and of course I was just raving about how small I was and finally my mom-in-law said"Tiff no way are you that small" So I decided to show her the truth.....I swear I had to pick up her jaw from the floor. To this day anyone who is against implants or who says they are SOOO small,she says" You haven't met my daughter-in-law"!I love that! Anywho,I can't wait till I get'em that will be a great day. I can't wait to fill in a bra. I shouldn't be wearing one anyways all it does is cave in cause there is NOTHING to go in it. I can't wait to wear a shirt and not see the bra caving in. I could go on and on. I do have to say that my husband is a true champ in this situation. He really doesn't care what I do but I know he will be so happy that he doesn't have to listen to me cry about being so flat.
tiffany, what is your email address?
Staceykayeaton@hotmail.com
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